Frances Isabel Horsfall

My dear mother-in-law passed away this week. This picture was taken just months ago on her birthday. She lived ninety-six long, wonderful years. Dedicated to her Lord and Savior Jesus and to her family, she was a great example to me in raising my own children.

She taught me that "you can never spoil a child with love." (I always laughed at her story of 'punishing' my husband when he was a little boy. He had to sit in a chair - but she felt sorry for him so she always got him toys to play with!) Even in the later years that I knew her, I watched her sacrifice much of her own desires and wishes in order to make her family happy. One Easter she fell and broke her collar bone, but she never said anything about how badly she had hurt herself until after church and the huge family dinner she had prepared - because she didn't want to spoil anyone's day! That's just the way she was. Loving and giving and an incredible testimony of God's love and faithfulness.

She was a mighty prayer warrior for her family and others. I learned to pray for my children by following her example. Her Bible was well-read and deeply loved. How thankful I am that as a young bride I had her godly influence in my life. She was a wonderful mother and I learned so much watching her.

She was 'just a housewife' (don't you hate that phrase?) - but worked harder and longer than many of us who work outside the home and raise our family. When I first met her, her husband and son (now my husband) worked two different shifts. I was astounded when I saw her cooking two full course meals at two different times a day - that's two separate breakfasts, two lunches, and two dinners! But nothing gave her more joy than to be serving her family and her church.

We are grateful for her life, and to know that she's in heaven with her precious Savior. She and Dad are rejoicing together! Has God blessed you with loved ones that have impacted your life? Be sure to thank Him today - and thank them!

I'll miss you, Mom. But how thankful I am for the blessing you have been in my life, and for the wonderful heritage you and Dad have left for my children.

All for Him,

Missy

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